If it's a secret, why isn't she keeping it?

Last weekend, Felicity and I went clothes shopping. Alas, my little girl is growing up, and alas again, nobody is handing her down clothing anymore. She was really dragging her feet initially, but after awhile and some purchases, she thought it was fun. I think she liked it that I let her make some choices and even let her spend her own hard-earned cash to buy a silly hat that will probably never be worn.

As we left one store in search of another, Felicity looked around and asked, "What's Victoria's Secret?"
"A womens' underwear store."
"So is there a sign there that says 'No boys allowed!'?"
"Uh... no."
"But the boys know not to go in there, right? They don't ever go in that store? They don't see girls wearing underwear, right?"

It is always a tricky thing to give information to children without giving them too much. I'm trying to be honest with my children and paint a healthy picture of the world, good associations about things without making extra guilt or myths. I don't want them in a bubble, but it's called Need to Know for a reason. I don't always do the best job, but it's a work in process.

So I responded: "No.... sometimes boys like to see girls in underwear. And that's not good. EXCEPT, when?" I asked Felicity, seeing what she knows.
"-Except if they're a member of the Church of Jesus Christ?"
"No!" I hurriedly say, "definitely not that as the qualifier! It's -Except if he is married to the girl!"